Dead Beat DAD!

Once again I would like to everyone for reading my blog. =) It means a lot to me!

     This blog I would like to talk about something that has been on my mind alot lately. That is Fathers not taking care of their children!

    First off I don't understand how someone can have children and not want anything to do with them. Or maybe have something to do with them when it is convenient for them. That is not how it works. Your children can not eat when it is convenient for you. Its not far to come in and out of the lives of your children when the time is right for you or something major happens like graduating High school!

    Another thing that makes me mad is not paying child support. I was reading online that 62% of custodial mothers do not receive child support! That is just ridiculous! It is ridiculous that they don't pay child support and there children suffer but the father wont suffer! ON HECK NO! Some fathers would rather there children go without than them and it is just plain sick! If you have children than you need to support them. If you are not going to support them.... STOP making them! Another thing that upset me is when people split up and remarry! Now that happens all the time and I am not saying anything bad about that, what I have a problem with is when they remarry and they treat their "stepchildren" better than they treat their own kids! I don't understand how someone can give the world to kids that are not even theirs and treat their own kids like they are nothing!

       This subject makes me more mad than anything. I think the reason that it does is because it hits so close to home! My father (if that is what you want to call him) doesn't take care of his children. You see he likes to think he does on his time. He calls us when he "thinks" about it. I am so tired of being treated the way he does us and I am not going to stand for it anymore. Why not pay child support? Why take care of other peoples children and not your own? Why do you get to eat stakes every night and I have to sit and watch my mother worry about where we are going to get the money to eat on! It just doesn't seem right! I'm tired of it! Its not far and no life isn't far but its called RESPECT! You treat others the way you want to be treated! What if I decided to never talk to you again! How would you feel? What if you were in need of gas money or food or anything for that matter and I had money and would help you out AT ALL! How would you feel if you had to raise two kids on your pay check NO HELP AT ALL? Is that how you want to be treated? NO doesn't sound like the fairy tale life that your living in! Before I go I also want to say that it is wrong to steal from your children. And when you take away their trust of men, security, and money out of a birthday card that's called STEALING. What if I came and stole something of yours? How would you feel? I'm sure you would like it! So I think I better leave it at that before I get myself in trouble....

Once again thank you for reading my blog! I would like to say again that this is MY blog and I control it. What I write about is what is on my mind and heart at the time and no one elses. So keep the negative comments to yourself and if it hits home for you... oh well maybe you should man up and change something! =)

~Never Settle for less than what you Deserve!~

Love,

Naomi =)

Being Big is not Horrible!!!

First off I would like to thank everyone for reading my blog!
 I also would like to address something that has been bothering me.... If you are reading my blog just to criticize me just stop right now. I don't need you picking at everything I say in my blog. These are my blogs and I have the option to talk about anything I want, just like you have the option not to read it!

   Being Big is not horrible!!! I just want to put that out there. There are women (and men but this is for women) of all sizes in the world and everyone of them are beautiful. I think now a days in the media it gives the impression to women that they should be a size 2 and have a huge butt and huge boobs, but that is not the case at all! Today there are shows like the Biggest Loser and I feel some people take that is meaning everyone should be a certain weight. But I feel that show is only trying to stress being Healthy! And you can still be Healthy and not be super skinny!
  I got the idea to write this blog while I was watching the Tyra Banks show.  In this episode, there were two women talking about eating a "tapeworm" to lose weight. A TAPEWORM.  There was also a doctor on the show saying that the tapeworm can actually eat you alive. When asked why they would even think about eating a tapeworm to lose weight their answers were almost the same. "I want to be skinny, I'm tired of always being the FAT one"! It sadden me to know that someone can feel so low and hate themselves so much that they would ingest a tapeworm to become skinny. This is not okay.
    I can relate to how many young girls may feel and want to try different ways to weight lose. I have been big all my life and it  can be hard sometimes. I can remember in school wanting so bad to have the clothes of the popular and skinny... but the thing was they don't make clothes like that in plus size. I used to get picked on so bad because I had a bigger chest then they all did. Things like that will do wonders on your self esteem.
   For those of you who don't know me I am a bigger women! I am not a size 2 and I feel beautiful! I may not have the "perfect figure" but who are they to tell you what the perfect figure is? You just have to have confidence and if people don't like you than it says something about their character.
    Everyone is different and Everyone is beautiful! Never let someone tell you your not beautiful.


Beauty comes in all sizes, not just size 5.  ~Roseanne


Thank you guys for reading my blog! Never Settle for less than what you deserve!
Love,
Naomi =)

Scared to death!

First off I would like to say thank you for reading my blog. =)
       Yesterday morning I woke up to find my precious Kingston very very sick. He was unable to walk or stand on his back legs. So I carried him down the stairs and took him outside. When I put him down he whined. I didn't know what was going on and I was scared to death! So I started calling around to all the vets around town. I tired explaining to them that I didn't have a lot of money but he really needed to be seen and that I would make payments on it. NO ONE and I mean NO ONE would work with me. I couldn't believe it. In the meantime my Kingston is in pain and I am to watching him suffer. So I had a Math Exam that morning. I hope I did okay but my mind was on Kingston and to be honest I was hoping that he would still be alive when I got back home.
       When  I got out of the exam, my grandmother called and told me to take him to the vet and she would pay for it. I didn't want her to do that so I called one more vet. A vet in Hephzibah that my friend told me about Dr.Gradous. He was able to see Kingston asap and he wasn't going to charge that much. So my mom got off work and got my sister from school and we took Kingston to the vet. I was so scared. I had been reading things on the Internet and the symptoms that he was having was symptoms of Heart Worms, a Seizure, and Heart Attack. Man talking about Scared. Here's some advice. When something is wrong never seek the Internet for help. The "online" vet cant see him and they really don't know. So once we got to the vet I was told that Kingston has inflammation of his Spinal Cord. Which is a sign that he will have server back pain for the rest of his life. Which is common in smaller dogs. He also has asthma. That is the reason that he has trouble breathing and the reason his bark isn't as strong as others. Kingston will be put on medicine in the future for his back problems but for now he got a shot yesterday to numb the pain. It should last 5 days if in five days he is not better he will go back and be put on the medicine right away.
        Today Kingston seems to be doing so much better. He is walking with a limp but he is walking now. He is also playing with Jonas and acting more like his normal self. I was so scared yesterday. I cried all day. I truly thought that I was going to lose him. I have never been so scared. I am just so thankful for Dr.Gradous he was able to make my precious Kingston feel much better. I also am so thankful for him not charging so much and my mom was able to pay for it. I don't knew what I would have done without my mom yesterday. She helped me out more than ever. She was with me through all my crying yesterday lol =)  I am just so thankful that my Kingston is still with us. =) Thank you for reading my blog and thank you for all the prayers for my precious baby!

Love,

Naomi =)